As far as my personal limitations are concerned, I am happy to refer to Franklin Veaux`s bill. It makes me think about what I am good and what falls outside of “OK.” I think people in all relationships, monogamous or not, should take into account their needs and limitations more often. When I started doing this organically, but when I think back to some of the relationships I have had in the past, I realize that clearer above my own needs and limitations would have spared me a lot of pain and grief. They`re not agreements. All they say is what can be expected of you. One agreement would be: “We will do our best to preserve our own mental and physical health, safety and well-being – and we will help each other if we do not succeed alone.” As a polyamorous relationships coach, I`m really curious about what motivates people to make the decisions they make. There is certainly a degree of uncertainty in the practice of polyamory. If you are curious about the poly-lifestyle, you want to feel a little grounded in this uncertainty. Some people want to create a structure in their relationship to feel safer. Some do it to feel more control. Others want to know that what they currently have will not be lost (a variation in security). Yet others want the freedom to do what they want, creating a situation that allows them to do so, usually with a certain degree of restrictions (a variation in control). All these things make sense to me, and I always come back to the intention of the desired action; the energy that is used to create the type of life, the kind of relationship that is the most open, the freest, the most aligned, the most harmonious with ourselves with the people we treat.
In November 2020, the Polyamory issue reached the Vermont Supreme Court in the form of an argument between two men and a woman in a polyamorous relationship.  This sometimes means that the agreements themselves are short. And sometimes that means they are long. My current deal with Skyspook and my previous contract with Rob were very short. My previous agreements with Seth and Tina were a little longer (although they could still be recorded on a piece of paper, and it helped to make it equal with both). LaVeyan Satanism is critical of Abrahamic sexual customs because they consider them to be narrow, restrictive and hypocritical. Satanists are pluralists who accept polyamools, bisexuals, lesbians, gays, BDSMs, transgenders and asexuals. Sex is considered an indulgentness, but one that should be entered freely only with consent. The Eleven Satanic Rules of the Earth give only two instructions about sex: “Don`t make sexual progress unless you receive the mating signal” and “Not to pity young children,” although the latter is much broader and includes physical and other abuse.